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It’s like Nat Cole is still alive when I remember that night in the latter 60’s at the Fox Theater in San Diego where I had been asked to emcee a movie premiere. Nat was there. He didn’t sing in the movie.  He had a supporting role, but he was the star to me.

Backstage, his manager prepped me on Nat’s stage appearance. ”Mr. Cole will come out and just wave to the crowd. Then leave. Don’t ask him to sing. Ok?” I nodded, and then he brought Nat over, introduced him and left us. Nat had a regal bearing combined with a sincere warmth. Flashing that big Nat Cole smile, he shook my hand and there was an instant rapport.

It only took me a minute to forget his manager’s admonition. “Nat,” I said “There are two thousand fans out there who want to hear you sing.” I pulled out a “45.” “I know you won’t actually sing, but will you lip-synch “Mona Lisa for us?” His smile faded, “What do you think this is?” He asked testily. “The Dick Clahk Show?”

I mumbled an apology and started to walk away. Then I felt his hand on my shoulder and turned around to see that Nat Cole smile again, a smile as wide as you will ever see. He pointed to a grand piano that was standing against the wall. “Ask the stage hands to move it out on stage, will you?”

I ran to two stage hands who were just standing there. “Will you move the piano on stage? Nat is going to sing for us.” One muttered something about it being against union rules. The other guy just walked off like he was insulted.

I was incredulous and shouted after them. “Nat Cole is going to give us a free concert and you guys won’t move a piano six feet?” Again, I felt the hand on my shoulder.” He took off his cashmere coat and said,  “Here, Harry. Help me move this piano onstage.” I jumped to his side and we pushed it onto the brightly lit stage in front of a stunned crowd who soon saw what was happening and erupted into cheers and applause. I grabbed the center stage mike and handed it to him and he sang with no introduction.

Did he ever sing! “Straighten Up And Fly Right”. “Laura”. “They Try To Tell Us We’re Too Young”.  And, of course, “Mona Lisa”. It was a sensory overload.

And this is my most vivid memory. He finishes amidst a deafening roar, then walks to the side of the stage while I am at stage center bringing him off. Then he spies a cheerleader’s baton that had been left there for later in the show. He picks it up and flings it to me. Twenty feet straight to my hand. I one-hand it and throw it back in one motion. Arc’d it straight into his outstretched hand. Effortless. Can’t explain it, Zen maybe? It’s what baseball players call “the zone.”

Couldn’t do it again.

The crowd is still manic, roaring with deafening decibels. Then, Nat looks straight at me and shakes his head and flashes that smile again. It seems wider than his key board. Then, he ducks backstage.

Don’t let anyone kid you about nostalgia. It is real. Mostly, it is about remembering the first time we were in love. Nostalgia is a warm feeling inside us, formless. and indefinable until we stimulate our memories. Then it leaps out like some giggling spirit that we have somehow tickled into life, a joyous living presence. My entire life has been like this. Nostalgia welling up in one part of me and another spirit of equal strength tugging me into new adventures and experiences. I lean toward the future but still cherish the past. How we feel about our youthful memories is part of the secret of a good life.


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